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oxfordtweed) wrote2011-02-09 10:28 am
oxfordtweed) wrote2011-02-09 10:28 am
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These things actually do happen to me
It's no secret that sex is not high on my list of things I like to do. It's pretty damn close to the bottom, actually, just a few spaces above doing the dishes and cleaning the cat pan. I will have sex, and there are times when I even think that I want to do it (and then I get to that point, and wonder what I was thinking, and remember that no. I don't actually like it much at all after a certain point).
And then things like this happen.
One thing we'll do, because Ryan really enjoys sex, is I'll strip down and lie on the bed, and he'll give me a massage. He gets to touch me while I'm naked, which gets him plenty worked up, and then he's allowed to basically do whatever he wants to get off. Sometimes, if I'm feeling particularly generous, I'll suck him off, but I don't like doing it, so I have to be feeling really generous.
Today, it was just a lot of rubbing against me while he stroked himself off whilst straddling my hips. This is the part where I usually get bored and let my mind wander, because I'm all relaxed and still being touched, which I do (for the most part) quite enjoy. He was sitting a bit higher (relative to me, by which I mean closer to my chest than my hips), and with his cock basically right there in my face, I got an idea in my head that wouldn't go away. I've often read in fic where the character feels his balls twitch and tighten just before he climaxes, and I wanted to see if it was something I'd be able to feel, so I cupped my hand over them.
After a bit, he finally slapped my hand away and said, "Quit experimenting. You're putting me off."
So I went back to being bored. He did let me put my hands back just before he finished, though. I couldn't feel anything, and when I asked him he said that he's generally too distracted by what his cock is doing to pay attention to what his balls are doing.
So there's one mystery solved.
And then things like this happen.
One thing we'll do, because Ryan really enjoys sex, is I'll strip down and lie on the bed, and he'll give me a massage. He gets to touch me while I'm naked, which gets him plenty worked up, and then he's allowed to basically do whatever he wants to get off. Sometimes, if I'm feeling particularly generous, I'll suck him off, but I don't like doing it, so I have to be feeling really generous.
Today, it was just a lot of rubbing against me while he stroked himself off whilst straddling my hips. This is the part where I usually get bored and let my mind wander, because I'm all relaxed and still being touched, which I do (for the most part) quite enjoy. He was sitting a bit higher (relative to me, by which I mean closer to my chest than my hips), and with his cock basically right there in my face, I got an idea in my head that wouldn't go away. I've often read in fic where the character feels his balls twitch and tighten just before he climaxes, and I wanted to see if it was something I'd be able to feel, so I cupped my hand over them.
After a bit, he finally slapped my hand away and said, "Quit experimenting. You're putting me off."
So I went back to being bored. He did let me put my hands back just before he finished, though. I couldn't feel anything, and when I asked him he said that he's generally too distracted by what his cock is doing to pay attention to what his balls are doing.
So there's one mystery solved.